What some advice? The first piece of advice - Do not get personal with people on the internet. I have a couple of buddies that I know in real life, and I might post something "personal" to them in my forums - but in a joking kinda way. But, if they get offended by what I posted, I'll just call them on the phone or go to their house to talk about things. Or, I'll just throw a big bar-b-q and invite them over. When you get personal with someone, especially when they are a moderator, its a lose - lose situation. I have been personally banned from 1 forum ever since I got on the internet - which was around 1996. To me, getting banned from 1 forum in 13 years is pretty good. But hey, that moderator was stalking and flaming me. What I posted, they had to coming. The second piece of advice, do NOT go around to other forums and badmouth people. Especially moderators from other forums. If you posted this kind of crap on my forum, and I respected that other community, I would probably give you an infraction or maybe a 1 week ban from my community. There is a certain level of respect that is "supposed" to be shared between communities. And right now, you aint showing no respect.