Have you ever argued with another Admin on your forum? Both the same gender, mostly men. I have, I guess it's that condition where, the other person pays for everything and everyone under him is inferior. I've been that way before, but I've changed to be a calm, admin. Yeah sure, paying for everything has it's gifts, but not everything has to go your way. You made someone else admin to help, and not just be there. Admin means that you add updates to what you think needs, moderate all forums, and if your tech savvy enough, web server updates.