Lots of people who decide to seek treatment from a qualified psychotherapist have had one or more traumatic experiences happen to them at some point in their lives. And many trauma therapists believe that psychotherapy is helpful for many who can't get over what happened to them. However, some shrinks only believe in helping trauma victims deal with todays issues. They don't believe in talking with their clients about past traumatic events that happened to them. Instead, some therapists literally tell people who ask, "How do I get over what happened to me?" to "Move on." Just move on? What if you can't? To me, a therapist who thinks that someone can just kick themselves in the butt and simply move on is a therapist who doesn't really know what he or she is doing.